It is a big responsibility to take care of a child while the child’s parents area way. But it might also turn out to be the most enjoyable job. All you have to do is find out the dos and don’t and proceed accordingly.


The world is moving forward quickly. Married folks are so busy with their lives, their work, and making their earnings that they hardly worry about having a child and extending their family. And those who have children leave them either with their parents or with other family members when they go to work. But for those whose parents live far away from them, they have no choice but to leave their work, stay home and take care of the child.


For parents in this situation, it is great news that the idea of babysitting has just entered Nepal. But it is still hard for parents to trust their children with a stranger.  Research has found that 64 percent of parents say it’s stressful to find a babysitter they like and trust — and that is a reason they do not want to employ anyone as a babysitter. This scenario can give raise to great opportunities for qualified Nepalese interested in making additional earnings. But babysitting is a work that carries a great responsibility. Not only do babysitters need to catch up with a few dos and don’ts, but they also need to have basic training.

I recently had a chat with my friend who babysits, and she gave me some advice on babysitting which I have listed here. 

 

  • You have to comprehend your own level of convenience, capacity constraints. You have to ask detailed questions about the parents’ expectations so you see if you can match those expectations with what you can give.
  • Always have open communication, and don’t attempt to find out everything about the child and the house on your own. Get assistance from parents when required.
  • Be ready for everything from allergies to emergencies -- that might occur. For this purpose, have a list of phone numbers to contact in case of an emergency as the safety of the child is the first priority.
  • Follow the timetable for mealtime, playtime, and nap time prepared by the parents or yourself. Having a clear idea of how the day of the child will unfold will assist you in reducing the potential for chaos.
  • Know the rules of the house and get the child to work within those regulations. This will show your sense of accountability and trustworthiness.
  • Stay close to the child you are watching. Keep your eyes on the child as he or she can be unpredictable. Don’t use your mobile while you’re at work.
  • Good babysitters, even when they have to be stern, are empathic and kind to the child they are watching. Be stern and gentle.
  • Do not do drugs, drink or smoke while you’re on the job, and don’t watch unsuitable videos.
  • Do not cancel your last minute at the last minute, as that can wreak the parent’s plans and cause stress.
  • Do not cross the limits, do not interfere in the family’s personal business, and maintain your working relationship.

Babysitting can sometimes be a difficult task, but it is also rewarding. Remember that the safety of the children is the number one concern, and as such always be ready for possible emergencies. But don’t forget to have fun with the children as well.