We all are pretty well known about the small fights, daily nags and clash of differences between siblings. This isn't something new to talk about but it obviously is something that defines the bond and unseen love between them.

Siblings' relationship is as important as a parent-child bond. The older sibling is the second parent and first friend. They put some better sense in younger ones and let them not make the same mistakes. There are warnings about everything, a good idea to skip the situation and an experienced way to get out of awkward family dramas. Healthy sibling relationships have less serious moments and more humor to deal with and we can say they have their own non-verbal ways of communicating. No one gets the conversation except them. With the strong bond comes differences, disagreements and small arguments. That is what siblings are about and that is what creates a fun rivalry between them.

“Siblings are the people we practice on, the people who teach us about fairness and cooperation and kindness and caring quite often the hard way.” – Pamela Dugdale

 

Siblings are mostly known for their polar opposite natures, their competition and arguments which obviously lasts for 5 minutes. They don’t always look the 

same but are always told that they do and it’s almost automatic for them to reject the compliment in 2 seconds. But, one thing we can be sure of is that siblings are the only people who can openly disrespect each other, if anyone else does it they always make sure to stand up and straight for the defense. With your sibling on the side, you always have a backup, someone who picks you up and holds you when people put you down. Beyond every difference among the siblings, there is love and unseen support too. After all, they are the ones to come up with a lie to save you and also agree to lies according to the situation. The only competition among the siblings is who gets the bigger chocolate or more drinks and it is a never-ending competition. However, they are the best secret keeper and motivator you can find and sometimes this puts you in a huge problems too.

Sibling rivalry is obviously a thing in every household but even the parents make sure never to interfere because “whatever siblings fight for; they solve on their own”. Not to be surprised when they measure everything precisely for the division, steal clothes and make sure to irritate every inch of each other. Complaining about one another on the dining table but still sharing everything about the day is one of the major sibling traits. They are the ones who come up with perfect lies to save the day (they will charge something for it but that’s okay) and we can 100% trust them that our secrets are safe with them.

Growing up with a sibling is having your biggest supporter throughout life with you who expresses hate with every word they speak. They are there to motivate you and keep you going. Your siblings are the ones that light up your worst mood or even ruin your good mood. They are against you in private but always with you in public. The rivalry may last for a few minutes but the love stays forever.

“Siblings fight and fall. But whenever you fall alone, they will always be there to pick you up.”