Dear you: 16-year-old me

I know this is a crucial time in your life when you’re trying to see where you fit in. You’ve already started making big decisions in your life such as what subjects to take, what career to make and so forth. And you’re in a great hurry to figure out your life as you feel time ticking away. On top of that, you have expectations to meet from your parents, teachers, family, friends and the entire world, which only seems to be piling on and on and on.

Take a deep breath.

Relax...

Let me tell you something from my personal observation, unless you’re a “zen” master, no one has completely “figured” themselves out. Even the seemingly most sorted person is constantly in this process of figuring out. So don’t be stumped by all the external pressure, and more importantly, you don’t have to succumb to it. There is no silver bullet that I can offer you, but I can help you ease through this process.

Getting a bad grade is not the end of the world. You’ll face your worst fears, live through your nightmares. But you will realize you’re way stronger than you think. Bad times will pass. It’s the good times, the great times you should be in the lookout for. You’ll meet amazing people, people who’ll bring out all sorts in you; you’ll go to amazing places, places you’ll call heaven and places you’ll call home. So step out of your comfort zone, keep your adventurous spirit soaring, and experience the many colors of life. And always remember that through kindness, compassion, love and an open mind, you can conquer the darkest of days.

It’s going to be a rollercoaster ride, but you like rollercoasters don’t you?

Love from afar,

Me (24-year-old you)

PS: Read more. Sing and dance more. Make art. And do it for yourself.

PPS: Sorry for the lack of spoilers from the future!